You Get What You Look For…

An interesting truth I've discovered over the course of my life, and my work in the coaching field is this:

You will find evidence for whatever it is that you're looking for, infinitely and in every direction.

Whatever you believe is true about you, you'll find it.

Whatever you believe is true about others, you'll see that too.

Whatever you believe is possible in your life, you're absolutely right.

But when you're truly ready and open to being incorrect about what you thought was true, your life and relationships will begin to change.

This is a tough one for many though because it requires you to give something up.

Your ego has to stop being so damn certain about who you are and your limitations.

You may no longer have a place to hide in your story about how others or the universe have wronged you.

And you may have to confront that the only real thing getting in the way of creating the life and love you want has very little to do with outside circumstances and more with how you've been showing up to them.

But this change is scary because all of those limiting beliefs have protected you up until now.

You have proof of this.  If you're here reading this, it means you have a heartbeat and are still alive, which is evidence of how these beliefs have kept you out of harm's way.

So let's not discard these old stories with malice and judgment but rather relax them with appreciation and honor for the purpose they've served up until now.

To remove the psychological armoring requires humility, curiosity, and aligned action.

It requires you to begin looking for new evidence that serves who you want to become, rather than who you have been.

This is the work of champions.

It is a subtle and loving return to your personal power.

It is making friends with uncertainty and being willing to venture into the unknown to create something new.

So let me ask you… What would you love to create this year?

What will you have to give up in order for that to happen?

Who will you need to start being for this creation to occur?

I'd love to hear from you.