Testimonials
Saved my relationship – more than once.
He was able to give me a lot of clarity and acceptance. Clayton has a special gift for understanding situations with what little information you tell him. It’s more than just his knowledge and training… there’s definitely something special about him. If there’s an internal or external conflict in your relationship, Clayton will be able to help you in ways you couldn’t on your own.
If you need a relationship coach, he is exceptional.

George R
I started working with Clayton 12 months ago when my 20+ year career felt like it had completely stalled out.
I was waking up with palpable panic each morning, and feeling powerless in my situation. After our first session, I was able to easily understand a much more objective reality, and quickly moved away from debilitating panic and toward solutions-oriented thinking. Rather than learning how to bury emotions and use magical thinking to minimize conflicts, Clayton empowered me to use my particular gifts and insights to understand my situation through the lens of understanding, empathy, and honesty. I now feel completely capable of facing conflict, ambiguity, and constraints in a high-level position in the corporate world, and know that I’ve moved to this place because of the direct, meaningful, truthful work Clayton and I undertook in each session.
Dan Cox, US
It’s hard for me to put into words the magic that Clayton works as a transformational coach.
I sought Clayton’s support after having followed his work and online content for a couple of years. I had just gone through a very painful breakup, which I wanted to turn into a breakthrough, and Clayton patiently and expertly held me through that process over the course of 10 months, illuminating every step of the way with his brilliant insights and coaching tools.
With Clayton in my corner, I was able to navigate my grief with compassion and expansion, distilling the learnings from the heartache and trusting and loving myself increasingly more. I came out the other side of the coaching feeling much more resourced and grounded, with a lot more clarity and inner peace.
I still refer to Clayton’s wisdom when faced with a challenging romantic or life situation and I know the benefits and lessons of our time together will stay with me for life. I feel forever grateful for my experience with Clayton and I couldn’t recommend him highly enough as a coach. He’s truly great — and also such a poet with his beautiful use of the English language!
From the bottom of my heart, I thank you, Clayton.
Sheila Ruiz, US
I had been listening to Clayton’s videos and reading his emails for a long time and he happened to offer a discovery session right at the time I needed it most.
I was trying to decide if I should get back together with my ex and was totally confused about which way to go. Clayton has a special gift of being able to uncover patterns, beliefs and destructive habits that were getting in the way. He walked beside me, encouraged me and challenged me in a very supportive way. He doesn’t just ask questions, he dives deep, uncovers layers and teaches you what it all means. He does this in a warm fully supportive safe space, and makes it all make sense. I had more mindblowing wake up moments that I can count. It was the best investment I’ve ever made and he helped me to see patterns and protective mechanisms that I have been using for a lifetime and make changes that I could have never done on my own. It was such a gift to have Clayton by my side as I was testing the waters with my ex again. I learned why I do the things I do and never felt ashamed or wrong. I was able to rekindle my relationship in a healthier, more transparent way and create a new way of being in my relationship that feels more intentional and healthy. I lived by Clayton words, “if you do the work and give it your all, the answer whether to stay or go will be revealed – you won’t have to decide”.
I loved listening to your wisdom and your intuition on where I was and you hit the nail on the head every time. I have been in coaching sessions where they only ask questions, but I felt like you were educating me every session and it was such a gift. It’s like you could read my mind. I felt so understood and not defective or like I needed to be fixed. You have an amazing gift of getting to the root of the issue. I’m so glad I made the investment and would work you forever if I could:) Every time I listen to the recordings I get some new insight or understanding. I’m grateful for you and your wizardly ways.
L. Perdue, US
Before coaching, I was caught in a painful cycle of self-doubt, deep anxiety, and a constant search for external validation,
which left my marriage feeling like it was at a breaking point and often made me feel like a “childish, needy kid”. This internal struggle created an “ick” in our relationship, as my wife felt burdened by my emotional needs. This coaching experience has been truly life-changing, fundamentally reshaping how I show up for myself and my family.
Now, my wife and I are vibrationally on the very same plane, with our communication being way better and a profound increase in intimacy that feels truly “amazing”. She’s expressed incredible gratitude for how I’ve changed, even telling me she “wishes I could only see myself the way she saw me” and that she’s “amazingly lucky to be with me.” I’ve consciously shifted from a victim mentality to a Creator mindset, embracing my purpose to “elevate my family” and “fill their buckets up” by consistently showing up as the mountain in her storm rather than crumbling under pressure. I’m learning to combat negative self-talk, actively choosing presence, and setting clear boundaries, which has allowed me to see challenges and stress not as setbacks but as power entering my body, fostering a new sense of anti-fragility. This journey has led to a genuine relationship renaissance, bringing profound connection, honesty, and a deeply satisfying intimacy back into my life that I didn’t think was possible.”
Rob Towers
When I first talked to Clayton I was in a place of fear after my relationship ended.
Clayton’s perceptive and skillful questions helped pull me out of this frame of mind and empowered me to be the best that I could be. Clayton’s support in helping me see the endless possibilities within have empowered me to take great leaps in my life, starting with launching my own business and following my dreams. I am still growing daily and my confidence has grown tremendously. It has not always been an easy journey and I am still amazed how far I have come in the 4 months since I have been speaking and emailing Clayton. Thank you for being such an inspiration.

Elena, UK
Having Clayton as a coach was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
Through our work, I have built a more powerful version of myself and now have valuable tools for creating an abundant life and approaching my business with clarity and better decision-making. Clayton has played an instrumental role in helping create my personal operating system around dealing with day-to-day operations, business partnerships, and personal relationships. I now have clarity in how I see myself and am able to take effective actions aligned with my vision and goals in my business. This has been an incredible experience and I recommend it to anyone whether you’re running a business or going through a significant life event and need a professional in your corner.

Cody L, Co-Founder of Twice
I feel like a different person. I’m noticing a very peaceful and trusting energy that I’ve never had before.
My posture has changed, my walk has changed, my energy has completely shifted. When I was in New Orleans, people kept coming up to me saying ‘You’re so beautiful.’ I’ve never experienced anything like that. I didn’t know energy could really work like that.
Even my daughter says I’m like a different person as a parent. I’m actually responding now instead of reacting to everything. I’ve learned to feel my emotions, sit with them, and not immediately act on them. I really learned to parent myself. At first, doing what you told me was really weird, but I just kept going and everything changed. I trusted that it would work.
I’m not trying to be chosen or convince anyone to like me anymore. I’m just being myself and really starting to love every single part of me. I can even laugh about things I’m not good at without shaming myself. That’s completely new for me. I couldn’t have done this without you because my coach has really changed the way I think about myself.

Christine Cabras
It’s hard to put into words how Clayton has shown me different ways to care for myself.
Clayton helped me to see unconscious patterns in my life that I had been perpetually repeating and keeping me stressed beyond belief.
The work we did over our 6 month engagement has helped me grow in ways I never could have expected.
Through our work I have learned to better communicate and truly live into relationships all around me. It is opening up new doors and potential life paths, as well as helping to move on from situations and relationships (both personal and professional) that have been blocking me.
The way I show up and engage with the love of my life is now far healthier and it shows! She looks at me again like she did when we first met and her body language is back to that of confidence and desire.
I am excited to continue my growth as it has been several months now since I last worked with Clayton and almost every day I see something that our work has brought into my life. No matter what your situation is, I am confident that should you decide to work with Clayton you will be nothing less than thrilled with the experience.
Thank you for the work you put in helping me establish direction and being such a positive force in my life.
Chad, US
I am absolutely living my dream life and my work with Clayton is a huge part of that.
Clayton is simply the best. He is real. He is focused. He is extremely insightful. And best of all, he is committed to helping his clients become more self-aware, understanding, and accepting of the challenges they are facing, and then he guides them with care to their own better version. After our time together, I launched my own full-time coaching business. I give him my sincerest gratitude. For me, this has been one of the most valuable experiences I have ever been a part of and I am so grateful that I invested in myself and partnered with Clayton.

Laura W, US
I am so grateful for all our time in our coaching relationship.
I have learned SO much and have grown in ways I never thought possible. I am now in a committed relationship with a great guy. I am making $60k more than I was when we started coaching creating a new promotion and a new job. I will be referring you to everyone in my life because this has been truly life-changing. Thank you, thank you!

Vanessa Coaloa
I reached out to Clayton, wanting to save a relationship. However, while working with him, I have learned more about myself than I could have ever imagined.
He met me exactly where I was, inspired me, and then helped empower me to start on a true journey of discovery.
I could write a book about all of the things we have worked on together, but some of the most helpful aspects of his coaching have been helping me to find the confidence in myself to recognize and be the man that I am. I cannot emphasize how different I am now compared to when I first talked to Clayton on the phone. And while he has been an essential part of this growth, like a true coach, he has taught me the lifelong tools necessary to put into action while he has given guidance from the sidelines.
I can honestly say that working with Clayton has been one of the most worthwhile investments because the return on personal growth has been beyond what I could have achieved on my own.
I never imagined reaching this level of peace and (I chuckle as I write these next words) personal enlightenment. I am grateful to Clayton for his patience, guidance, and sincere interest in me and my journey. If you’re considering working with a coach willing to do the work, then working with Clayton will be life-changing.

Ryan Uhrey
If I had to sum up my work with Clayton in one word it would be ‘Responsibility’.
When I started working with him, it was because I wanted help with my relationship. Or so I thought. What I have come to realize through the process was that what I really wanted help with was myself. He helped me to see how caught up I get in the stories I tell myself about the world — not the facts about the world, but my stories about those facts.
The realizations are only part of what I have gained from our work together. What I have come to rely on more than anything in our work together is the regular practice of holding up the vision of who I want to be — not just who I have always said I want to be — and using that vision as a guiding star to move toward. He is really good at holding that star up to me in a way that isn’t preachy or militant, just straightforward. Real.
I can’t say enough thanks to Clayton for all his help. He is truly magical. I’ve been working with him for years now and I am still not even sure how he does it. I show up for our conversations, we talk and somehow magic happens in my life. It is a continually amazing process. He is incredibly present, very insightful and one of the few people in my life that I can truly count on to call me on my bullshit. I can’t recommend working with him enough.
Ben Easter. Portland, OR
Investing in coaching with Clayton is by far the best decision I’ve ever made.
I owe my life to him. He has taught me so much in the past year. He helped me finally break toxic relationship patterns and helped me find me again after a devastating breakup. I’ve been able get out of my head and into my body so that I can trust my inner guidance. I’m so much kinder to myself. When I look in the mirror now, I love who’s looking back at me. My form is even different than a year ago. I glow, I’m lean, and now eat healthy by choice. My face has even become more youthful and alive, my eyes are bright and soft, my posture is straight and confident. I’m a better person, mother, friend to myself and others, boss, daughter, sister, colleague… I will be eternally grateful and his biggest fan.

Kari K, San Fran CA
Where do I even begin? YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE!
I went with my gut reaction after seeing you on YouTube—I instantly knew you were someone I could trust and open up to. This was huge for me since I’ve never shared my deepest feelings and thoughts with anyone, EVER! It paid off beyond my expectations. The coaching has been tremendous, and I genuinely love every session. You communicate with true sincerity and wisdom—you are absolutely the real deal. The most impactful areas of our work have been understanding and healing my childhood memories and breaking free from my OCD patterns. These breakthroughs alone have completely freed me. I can’t thank you enough for the transformation you’ve guided me through.
Lora Neild
Whilst handling significant personal life changes and challenges,
I chose a series of coaching sessions with Clayton (Olson). Clayton’s work is based on core values, from the heart. I feel a tremendous freedom to express myself and Clayton brings enormous warmth and receptivity to the coaching relationship. For me, each session is a discovery – like a wonderful ‘alchemical lab’. This becomes fuel for heart-based perceptions and change! This is beyond measure. I can truly recommend Clayton’s coaching. If you appreciate a dynamic, trustworthy support at times of change, Clayton is a truly safe pair of hands.
Olga S, UK
Clayton helped me find grounded connection
When I first came to Clayton, I was frustrated by my lack of connection in relationships and my inability to trust myself. I wanted to understand why I kept entering relationships only to second-guess my intuition and feel ungrounded.
After nine sessions, I can honestly say I have gained tools that changed everything. Now, when I feel anxious or unsettled, I know how to anchor myself, move into a calmer space, and make clear decisions. I’ve learned to ask questions until I truly understand, work through issues instead of running from them, and show up authentically in conversations.
For the first time, I trust myself to stay or walk away without fear. My authenticity invites others to be authentic too, creating more meaningful connections. I’ve done seminars, classes, and counseling before, but this coaching has been personal growth on steroids. I’m deeply grateful for Clayton’s guidance and his authentic desire to help me become the best version of myself.
Melissa Arnold
I hope this encapsulates my true gratitude and appreciation for all your help…
Honestly words don’t come close to how much you helped me. I was actually really skeptical when we set up our first intro call… I almost canceled it, but then I thought “well it’s free, so what the hell!” I sensed right away that you had depth and I felt a connection with you and I liked your approach with me in your communications. I felt like you could really help me pull my shit together. And I’m so glad I listened to that instinct and invested in working with you. It’s been one of the best investments of my life and I’m entirely grateful that I had the chance to work with you and that you were there for me during this tough time.
You are a wizard and a genius when it comes to coaching and relationships. Thank you so much! Honestly, when I met you and started working with you I felt you are a gift from God… I still believe that. I was at my wits end when we met. I felt destroyed, depleted, lost… And you slowly helped build me back up.. You helped me achieve what my mind told me was impossible but my heart yearned for:
Reconnecting with the woman who dumped me just a few months ago. Now we are are back together in a more awesome relationship than we had before. She is the one chasing me now and wanting me…. I can’t express my level of gratitude for everything you’ve given me. You’ve given me tools and helped me gain clarity on some of my major blind spots, which will enrich me for the rest of my life and allow me to create the relationships I really want. You are amazing and I honestly feel that anyone is lucky to be able to work with you.
You helped me let go of the past and focus on building something new with her. You helped me focus on creating the foundation to the relationship I really want…
Now things are just awesome! We’re going on a 10 day vacation in Costa Rica this month and we’re talking already about moving in together at some point in the future. She’s told me more times than I can count how much better our relationship is and how much I’ve changed. And it’s true, I feel it to. I couldn’t have done it without you my man.
Honestly if anyone gets a chance to work with you they are way more lucky than they know. You are truly a genius at this stuff. You went above and beyond the call so many times to help me when I needed it most. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Blaise, CA
Clayton is an amazing person with incredible insight to offer.
He helped me through a very difficult time in my life, a devastating breakup with a man whom I contemplated having a family with. Clayton made me realize so many things about myself, such as the need to set boundaries and to honor myself and trust my gut instinct in certain situations. The discussions we had together really helped to open my mind and see things from a different perspective which was very helpful. In the 3 months that we worked together, Clayton made a major impact in my life, and has helped to shape me into a stronger and more confident woman. I am very grateful that I found him and feel honored to have worked with him. He genuinely cares and has a gift for what he does. I highly recommend him and will certainly turn to him again for help during another major life event that I need guidance.

Angelina
I can’t thank Clayton enough for helping me get through such a difficult time.
Clayton helped me shift my mentality and improve my communication skills in all my relationships. He especially helped with my ex girlfriend, who came back to me after many of the changes implemented through Clayton’s insight. His conflict resolution analysis is particularly helpful. If you are looking to change your old approach then Clayton is a great resource. Thanks again.

Nate, NYC
From our very first phone conversation,
Clayton clearly articulated and profoundly connected with the issues I was facing in my relationship and insightfully provided perspective and solutions I would have never sought on my own. Clayton has helped me not only in my personal relationships, but in my life outside them. Clayton has helped unveil my confidence as a man and the best in my ability to communicate and understand clearly; what’s surfaced is a more fulfilling life. I would recommend Clayton to anyone, that is, who is eager to change their life for the better.
Clayton F, California
Clayton Olson will change the way you see yourself and the world.
His approach is holistic and grounded, built on deep listening and an authentic presence that helps you unlock new ways of seeing what’s possible.
I’ve had the privilege of working with Clayton over two six-month cycles. When I first came to him, I was caught in a painful loop of relationship dysfunction and had hit emotional rock bottom. Clayton guided me inward, helping me see myself clearly from a new perspective. That work gave me the agency to make conscious choices. Some relationships ended that needed to end, while the ones that mattered deepened in ways I couldn’t imagine.
Before my second cycle, I faced a major career transition. I doubted myself and feared the opportunity might turn into something I’d grow to resent. Clayton helped me step through that uncertainty and create the career I truly wanted. Today, I’ve grown from a mid-tier manager into the operating partner and CEO of a global company.
What makes Clayton extraordinary is his ability to reflect your own words back in a way that opens doors—from self-created limitations to unlimited possibilities. If you feel stuck, caught in cycles you can’t break, or lost in direction, working with Clayton will help you reclaim the power you already have and transform your life.
Jonathan Cox
Having said that you have change my world so much
that I felt it was necessary to share with others that you can truly help them as well. Basically my story is a simple one. It is the common theme of a man that has lost the love of his life to another, and is completely crushed. Showing no sign of belief that there is still a chance to be with her. Clayton opened my eyes to a completely different way of looking at my situation. Instead of believing I wasn’t good enough, that the man that she left me for is better than me, Clayton changed the way I viewed my situation. See not only did I lose my confidence, but how I portrayed my current state directly effected the way I was showing up. This way of thinking changes everything not just your romantic relationships. He made me understand that only I can choose where I take my life. In listening to Clayton I became “unflappable “. Stop caring of the outcome, and started to just have fun. My ex saw this change in me, immediately, it made her extremely curious, and actually wanting me again. In her eyes I was the old me again, not the needy, insecure person that I had become before.
Now although I have the women of my dreams back in my arms again I don’t forget what I have learned and continue to learn from Clayton. He truly is a great coach that constantly challenges me and my life dreams. But that’s not why I connect so well with him. I connect well with Clayton because he truly cares about me! That isn’t easily found in this world.
Pat
I’ve turned to Clayton for coaching on a few major areas in my life
that I used to struggle with: career happiness, relationships, and my own self-confidence. I went into the first call hoping he would just give me the secrets on how to have the perfect life, but he quickly helped me realize that no one could just “give” me the answers, and I had to discover them for myself. My conversations with Clayton opened my eyes to my blind spots that were standing in my way, and how I have been in control of them the whole time and didn’t even realize it. He has helped me reshape and redefine my own reality!

Kyle Weiger
Clayton Olson has been a major inspiration in my life.
When I first came across him, I was not exactly what one would call socially calibrated. I was a bit obnoxious looking back. The lessons I have learned from him have helped me in every part of my life. My business, my personal friendships, my love life and my family have all reaped the rewards of Clayton’s enthusiasm and inspiration. I am forever indebted to him. Many more thanks than words can speak Clayton!

Jourdan D, Colorado
Clayton Olson is an NLP magician.
Each meeting with him transformed me little by little, gently and deeply.
Beyond temporary comfort, working with him provided lasting results from real change.
Not only is he an experienced coach, but he is also endowed with an unusual maturity, sensitivity, and intelligence.
Each meeting was such a surprise to me. As a woman, I was wondering how a man would help me sort through my relationship and spiritual challenges. Always, I was delighted and profoundly touched by the depth and the clarity of Clayton’s insights.
I honestly felt thrilled, looking forward to the journey, each time before – and after – we met. Each conversation with him felt like a wonderful gift I offered myself.
I will not hesitate to turn to him again.
Should you feel the need to invest in yourself, go for Clayton! Your heart and soul will thank you immensely.

MJ
Clayton Olson is an NLP magician.
Relationships are not always what we plan them to be, and when I lost the love of my life, I reached out to Clayton to help understand what happened, and what I could do to regain what I had lost. Clayton not only provided invaluable advice but most importantly, listened to help me understand how I affect the outcomes that I experience, both then and now. The difference between Clayton and other advisors out there is his authenticity, and his amazing coaching ability – he has a diverse and extended background and he pulls from this experience as he works with you. I can’t thank him enough for the help and guidance he has given to me and I can truly say that he has made a huge difference in my life. I am indebted to him and his inspiration lives on in me. Thank you Clayton!

Suzanne, Virginia
I am a mid 40’s successful business guy who majored in Psychology,
was married previously to a Columbia graduate social worker and the son of a brilliant doctor dad MD with an emphasis in psychology. I say all that because I have NEVER met anyone with an understanding on relationships like Clayton. When my girlfriend and I broke up I was devastated and when I found Clayton, he was able to first and foremost bring my back to reality and sanity. He was then able to help me return to the once calm and rational man I was to help me understand why I lost my girl. He helped me realize who I needed to become as a person a man not only for HER but for me!
I was skeptical for sure but I needed someone… Clayton had me sign up for a series of weekly conversations and I can tell you 100% this was the best money i’ve ever spent!!
His insights and authentic grasp of my situation was priceless!
He was able to help me see things I would have never otherwise seen and help me day by day take the steps necessary to win my girlfriend back, AND become the man I’ve always wanted to be!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart Clayton, you are truly one of a kind and anyone who has lost there lover and wants them back and to take there own personal life to the next level, you can beneift beyond words by working with Clayton!

Greg, Atlanta GA
Time spent with Clayton has been invaluable to my current life experience.
Quickly I was able to identify when I was not thinking or behaving in line with my core values. In addition, by setting boundaries with others based on these core values, my relationships with friends, coworkers and myself have improved immensely. I’ve had several conversations and chat threads with Clayton that led to a paradigm shift in my thinking patterns, which were worth the cost of his coaching alone. Clayton also has a unique ability to identity and then taylor his coaching to what specific issues you are struggling with. I would recommend Clayton without reservation.
John S. MD, Colorado
Clayton was an incredible guide for me during a difficult period.
He challenged me to uncover new perspectives, reframe situations, refocus and at times, to simply be.
The depth of our journey, his calm demeanor, the strength that he embodies, the wisdom he helped me invoke from within. A true healer. Thank you Clayton..
Chhaya Ramlakhan
Words cannot describe how thankful I am for having worked with Clayton.
His knowledge and expertise on the subjects of relationships and personal-growth are second to none. I began working with Clayton after a breakup because I felt he had more knowledge and a better understanding of relationships than anyone else and he gave me the best chance of another chance at the relationship. His ability to process and understand relationship dynamics and behavior was what I anticipated, the best in the business. What I did not anticipate was his world-class ability as a personal-growth coach that inspired me to be honest with myself and congruently align my beliefs and actions. What began as a journey to fix a relationship turned out to be a life-changing experience in self-development and personal-growth that I would not trade for anything.
What I enjoyed most during my time working with Clayton was his raw and genuine honesty. One of his best attributes is utilizing this honesty to open your mind to the reality of situations, allowing you to see and step into the best version of yourself. His honesty builds an instant personal connection, making it seem like you have known each other for years.
What I believe separates Clayton from anyone else, is his innate ability to listen and fully understand your story, allowing him to illuminate the path to what it is you truly desire. He has a tremendous gift for listening and compassion. Clayton is extremely passionate about understanding your situation and pushing you to see and become the best version of yourself.
Working with Clayton has been one of the best decisions of my life. I would strongly recommend him to anyone looking for a relationship coach. This man has the experience and knowledge to understand relationship dynamics to the fullest and he knows how bring about real connection. I was also strongly recommend working with Clayton to anyone who is in question. Whether questioning your career, relationships, or you are on the fence about whether you need a life coach or not, I would suggest taking the leap and working with Clayton because he will help you find the answers you are looking for.
Mark Fenner
Wow, um… Clayton,
There were so many moments of honest exchange, laughing, playfulness, acceptance, sensuality and love. Thank you for your gift of creating a safe space, in which I was able to go deep with my pain and shift out of it enough to allow myself to be seen by my man. You are amazing! Allowing myself to be seen makes me feel vulnerable and to my surprise; I actually feel stronger, more confident and aware of what I need and what I can give in my relationship.
D.G.
Good news I’m back with my ex!!!
I texted him saying we should meet and catch up.
I really think what made the difference, is myself being vulnerable and taking responsibility for my errors. Also taking the pressure off of him makes him come to me because he wants to. I am so happy and over the moon excited about how well my changes have worked for me. If I hadn’t followed your advice I would still be floundering.
M.H.
Thank you so much for your help.
I followed your advice and took a risk.
And bang! My former boyfriend took a risk as well to see me again, a year since we broke up. He is now my boyfriend and we’re moving towards a deeper level of intimacy and trust.
With your help, I realized that I had deep insecurities which drove him away and I understood where they came from and how to change them.
In the end you have to spend time with somebody to create a relationship and be willing to be vulnerable and take a risk with your own heart.
Ellen, UK
Clayton has been a tremendous help and guide on that sometimes difficult road to self-awareness.
One of Clayton’s videos came by on YouTube one day in my search for answers on so many questions. More specifically about how to deal with the loss of the woman that I loved and how to get her back into my life. It wasn’t a quick fix and the journey we went on took surprising turns. It took me a couple of sessions to realize that we were not here for my ex-girlfriend, but for me and my own development as a man, as a human being and what I bring to the table in a relationship. With Clayton’s help I was able to see through the cracks and reached a much deeper understanding of where I am coming from. What makes me who I am and he handed me the tools to deal with underlying issues I brought with me on my path from a young boy to this present time. In the end my ex and I reconciled but only for a short time. The time was not right for us or maybe we are not right for each other at all. Time will only tell. What I do know is that I have learned so much about myself in the last couple of months and that Clayton has been truly inspirational on this journey.

Sander, Netherlands



