18 02, 2020

How to Let Someone Down Easy

By |2021-03-09T01:26:53+00:00February 18th, 2020|

Sometimes, love hurts. In fact, rejection is part and parcel of dating and romance: it just goes with the territory.  But not everyone knows how to let someone down easy. This often leads to ghosting, disappearing without explanation so that you don’t have to deal with the awful act of dumping someone. It might give you an out, but it also turns dating into a bit like the Wild West, where consideration for others takes [...]

19 01, 2020

THIS Makes You INSTANTLY More Attractive

By |2021-01-13T01:37:39+00:00January 19th, 2020|

When it comes to romance, it’s easy to get sucked into wondering what men want or how to be more attractive in their eyes.     Women read fashion magazines, spend hours at the gym, join dating sites, solicit advice columns, and even seek therapy all in the name of discovering why they’re so unlucky in love. But the answer is simpler than you probably think. It might be more counterintuitive too. In order to [...]

5 11, 2019

Why Do Men Only See Me as A Hookup?

By |2020-09-14T23:30:01+00:00November 5th, 2019|

The Art of Not Being a Hookup Imagine this scenario: You’ve been on a few dates with a dude and it’s all going well, it all feels very promising, and you are filled with hopeful anticipation. You share what you think is a pretty magical night together -- the chemistry is palpable and you are definitely vibing, and when you part ways in the morning you have no doubt it’s true when he says he’ll [...]

21 10, 2019

Three Covert Signs You’re in A Toxic Relationship

By |2021-02-15T20:22:25+00:00October 21st, 2019|

Ah, the wonderful world of dating. Wining, dining, and… toxicity? While it’s certainly not an item you want on the menu of your dinner for two, it happens more often than we’d like to admit. Abuse, gaslighting, manipulation—these are all obvious signs that you’re on a sinking boat; it’s time to pull anchor and abandon ship. Toxicity, in these forms, can be downright dangerous. But toxicity doesn’t always hit like a ton of bricks. [...]

21 10, 2019

One Big RED Flag in Dating – Why Guys Pull Away

By |2021-02-12T21:55:52+00:00October 21st, 2019|

So, your dating life isn’t going the way you expected. How do I know? You wouldn’t be reading this article if it was. It’s not just you: the sea is filled with tons of single fish. In fact, many people aren’t only single, but they’re also struggling with similar questions. Yep, they’re single and ready to mingle with some much-needed answers. One of the most common questions I get as a coach has to do [...]

11 09, 2019

Trust In Relationships & Dating: How to Operate from Secure Attachment

By |2021-02-12T21:29:26+00:00September 11th, 2019|

Trust is a prevalent theme in our society. Trust in self. Trust in partner. Trust the process. Trust the Universe. But, despite its prominence, many people don’t know how to trust. Or, if they’ve been burned, they don’t know how to trust again. This is entirely detrimental to a relationship; it’s like taking a needle to an inflated balloon. The reason is simple: without trust, a relationship is really just two people giving each other [...]

16 11, 2017

How To Stop Being Needy & Clingy In A Relationship

By |2021-02-15T20:45:21+00:00November 16th, 2017|

At one time or another, most of us have found ourselves in a relationship where we can't help but feel clingy and needy, most often because we're insecure about our partner's feelings. But this is never to our advantage. Unfortunately, this usually has the opposite result of what we want, aggravating and pushing our significant other away.  Learning how to stop being needy and clingy is more than just a decision. Clinginess is a reaction [...]

24 07, 2017

Five Post-Breakup Lies That Keep You STUCK With An Eternally Broken Heart

By |2021-02-15T21:14:43+00:00July 24th, 2017|

It's time to move on. Here's how. Learning how to move on after a breakup is hard. If getting over someone was as simple as "getting under" someone else, break-ups might be a little easier. Instead, it’s time-consuming and often painful enough to make us wonder if asexual creatures actually have the right idea. Still, getting over a breakup isn’t impossible. Millions of people do it every day (and perhaps you’ve done it before as well). Yet realizing a few [...]

21 05, 2017

Five Steps You Should ABSOLUTELY Take If You Want To Get Your Ex Back — FOR GOOD

By |2021-02-15T21:51:09+00:00May 21st, 2017|

Since the beginning of time, we have played games between the genders — women versus men, men versus women. The victor is the one who gets their way. But, as integral as game-playing may appear to be in a relationship, it’s not ideal. In fact, it hurts more relationships than it helps. If you’re wondering how to get your ex back, it’s worth hanging up your uniform and retiring from competition — the games are over. [...]

16 04, 2017

Five Things Every Woman Should Know About Her Man

By |2021-02-15T22:26:51+00:00April 16th, 2017|

I’m sure you’ve wanted to experience your own individuality and appreciation for being you. Your man is no different. In fact, men are often forgotten in the midst of being the band on the ring, and not the diamond. The diamond is you. The woman is the gorgeous sparkle, but your man needs recognition for the way he shines and attracts you.   If men get the inkling that they are unseen or underappreciated, they [...]