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19 04, 2021

Do THIS To Finally Let Go Of Someone Who Isn’t Good For You

By Clayton Olson|2021-09-09T20:11:36+00:00April 19th, 2021|

Have you ever had the experience of just not being able to let go of someone, even though you knew they weren’t good for you? Maybe you just started dating someone, and you’re interested in seeing where it goes. Still, you’re feeling forward movement is blocked somehow—maybe the frequency of their communication is less than you’d like, or you have an emotional connection, but you’re not feeling is reciprocated. Or perhaps you’ve been in a [...]

4 02, 2018

How To Deal With A Brutal Breakup (And Maybe Even Get Your Ex Back)

By Clayton Olson|2021-02-15T20:21:42+00:00February 4th, 2018|

If you’re wondering about how to deal with a breakup, there’s a chance you’re wanting your ex back. You’re probably devastated and wondering what went wrong. In fact, if you’re on the internet looking at dating articles, the odds are pretty high that you’re hurting, looking for hope, and wanting to know how to fix things. But wanting a reconciliation and the proverbial "happily ever after" isn’t always as straightforward as you might assume. There’s [...]

24 07, 2017

Five Post-Breakup Lies That Keep You STUCK With An Eternally Broken Heart

By Clayton Olson|2021-02-15T21:14:43+00:00July 24th, 2017|

It's time to move on. Here's how. Learning how to move on after a breakup is hard. If getting over someone was as simple as "getting under" someone else, break-ups might be a little easier. Instead, it’s time-consuming and often painful enough to make us wonder if asexual creatures actually have the right idea. Still, getting over a breakup isn’t impossible. Millions of people do it every day (and perhaps you’ve done it before as well). Yet realizing a few [...]

21 05, 2017

Five Steps You Should ABSOLUTELY Take If You Want To Get Your Ex Back — FOR GOOD

By Clayton Olson|2021-02-15T21:51:09+00:00May 21st, 2017|

Since the beginning of time, we have played games between the genders — women versus men, men versus women. The victor is the one who gets their way. But, as integral as game-playing may appear to be in a relationship, it’s not ideal. In fact, it hurts more relationships than it helps. If you’re wondering how to get your ex back, it’s worth hanging up your uniform and retiring from competition — the games are over. [...]

7 03, 2017

Three Secret Reasons Men Eventually Leave ‘Good’ Women

By Clayton Olson|2021-03-31T20:18:47+00:00March 7th, 2017|

He was SO into you ... and then he wasn't. Here are the reasons why he left but WON'T tell you: We've all rented a room or two at the "Heartbreak Hotel," maybe even on more than one occasion. Sometimes, we say that we didn't see the breakup coming (even when it's approaching like a raging bull). Other times, they truly do appear out of nowhere; everything was fine, until suddenly ... it wasn't. No [...]

18 02, 2017

Three Sad Ways You Dumped YOURSELF (Long Before He Broke Up With You!)

By Clayton Olson|2021-03-31T19:56:19+00:00February 18th, 2017|

Stop worrying about getting your ex back and get YOURSELF back first. You're sitting around after a huge breakup, waiting for your ex to come back. You fantasize about running into him at the grocery store, about his number appearing on your phone, about an e-mail telling you he's made a mistake and wants you back. Here’s the harsh truth you haven’t faced yet — you broke up with yourself LONG before your ex ever [...]

18 02, 2017

Dear Men, Four Brutal Reasons The Woman You Love Is About To LEAVE You

By Clayton Olson|2021-03-31T19:53:26+00:00February 18th, 2017|

It happens in so many relationships: Your love ... once a pot of boiling passion, cools off to a bucket of lukewarm water. And, be honest, men — at times, you’ve wondered if you should just break things off. But, you’ve invested time into this relationship and you really do like the woman you're with. You even say you love her. All relationships settle into a routine after awhile, right? So, you believe in seeing it through. Here's the thing though: Your girlfriend also senses the lukewarm temperature of your [...]

15 01, 2017

2 Hopeful Signs You SHOULD Get Back Together After Breaking Up

By Clayton Olson|2021-03-31T18:32:07+00:00January 15th, 2017|

Some relationships ARE worth fighting for. Is yours? Not all relationships are destined to last forever; if they were, we'd all abandon looking for "the one" and simply happily date "the many." Some relationships you should walk away from (or, perhaps even run from) but others are truly worth fighting for. But, how do you know when to say goodbye and when to give things another try? The truth is, deciding whether or not to get back together with [...]

2 01, 2017

Seven Simple Steps To Stop Your Heart From Breaking After A Breakup

By Clayton Olson|2021-03-30T22:38:51+00:00January 2nd, 2017|

Just because it's the right thing to do doesn't mean it's painless. You may be a person who can benefit from learning how to break up with someone. It's not that you go about the breakup the wrong way—you don't send a text message or send a singing telegram that ends with "It's been fun but now we're done." Instead, you can benefit from learning how to break up with someone simply because you don't [...]

13 12, 2016

13 Dangerous Warning Signs That Mean Your Relationship Is DOOMED

By Clayton Olson|2021-03-30T20:17:11+00:00December 13th, 2016|

For many couples, the road of a relationship eventually comes to a giant fork — one direction headed to happily ever after, and the other ending in heartbreak. When this fork comes, it’s perfectly natural to wonder how to know when to end relationship. After all, calling it quits too early can leave you wallowing in regret and wondering what could have been. No one — not your therapist, your mother, your best friend or [...]