Work With Me

Coaching reveals choice. Where a circumstance in your life seems black or white, you will realize that there is color. Where you see nothing but dead ends, coaching uncovers the secret passages or the hidden backdoor
– Clayton Olson

Who Clayton Works With

Clients seek Clayton when they want to transform their romantic relationships in life, and at all stages of the relationship including: getting started, mending, strengthening, or moving on.

Clients typically fall into one or more of the following categories:

  • Feel they have it all in life, professionally (business and career) and materially (money and possessions), but are bothered by the fact they don’t feel they have things in order when it comes to relationships.
  • Recover from devastating and painful break-ups, and find the confidence and clarity to either make-up, or move on.
  • Are lost about what to do with themselves, having made relationships their “everything” and forgotten to take care of their own wants and needs.
  • Want to reignite an existing relationship that has worked well, but want to grow and make sure it gets better and deeper than before.
  • Anxious and worried about what could go wrong in their relationships and whether their partner is going to leave the, which adversely affects their ability to get on with their life.
  • Afraid to commit to relationships because they fear it will take away their freedom.
  • Want to start and sustain a relationship, but don’t know how.

If you can relate to any one or more of the above, know you are not alone. And more importantly, there is a reliable way to have things be better.

Working with Clayton is Perfect For You If You:

Clients seek Clayton when they want to transform their romantic relationships in life, and at all stages of the relationship including: getting started, mending, strengthening, or moving on.

Clients typically fall into one or more of the following categories:

  • Want deeper feelings of connection and love without all the pain and heartache.
  • Want to know what the right decision is to make with regards to your relationship.
  • Want peace of mind, closure, clarity, confidence, and eventually lasting happiness.
  • Desire alignment between the parts of you that want to stay in painful relationships, and the parts of you that want out of them.
Clayton helped me to see patterns in my life that I had been perpetually repeating.
He helped me see that this stemmed from the way I communicated and viewed certain life events as well as how I truly viewed myself. The work we did over our 6 month engagement has helped me grow in ways I never could have expected. It is opening up new doors and potential life paths as well as helping to move on from situations and relationships (both personal and professional) that have been an impedance. It's hard to put into words how Clayton has shown me different ways to care for myself. I am excited to continue my growth as it has been several months now since I last worked with Clayton and almost every day I see something that our work has brought into my life.

– Chad G, Nevada
Clayton is an amazing person with incredible insight to offer.
He helped me through a very difficult time in my life, a devastating breakup with a man whom I contemplated having a family with. Clayton made me realize so many things about myself, such as the need to set boundaries and to honor myself and trust my gut instinct in certain situations. In the 3 months that we worked together, Clayton made a major impact in my life, and has helped to shape me into a stronger and more confident woman.

– Angelina

How Does It Work?

Rather than teaching quick-fix strategies, Clayton’s coaching style works with the deeper drivers behind people’s most painful experiences in relationships, and adjusts those experiences so clients can secure a life they endear, with a love that endures.

As a result, clients typically enjoy benefits in all areas of their lives including their career, business, spirituality, money, and sense of personal purpose.

  • Deeper connection.
  • Closure.
  • Pain-free love.
  • Lasting happiness.

Clayton has invested 20 years and over $100,000 into his education in psychology, coaching and neuro-linguistic programming.  He's worked with elite coaches, attended countless seminars, and been at the forefront of research on neuroscience of change and relationships.

As a leading expert, the structure of his 1:1 relationships is designed to create transformation and shift lives permanently.

Clayton works with clients for 6-12 months, many of whom he's served for several years.

Clayton only offers full-commitment coaching.  He's in your corner as a consultant where and when you need it most, on and off our calls.  Because of the high-touch nature of the relationship, he only works with a handful of well-vetted clients at any given time.

Fees range depending on the agreement and will be discussed at the end of the initial session, should this be a good fit.

Apply Now

Clayton Olson has been a major inspiration in my life.
When I first came across him, I was not exactly what one would call socially calibrated. I was a bit obnoxious looking back. The lessons I have learned from him have helped me in every part of my life. My business, my personal friendships, my love life and my family have all reaped the rewards of Clayton’s enthusiasm and inspiration. I am forever indebted to him. I wouldn't be the man I am today without him. Many more thanks than words can speak Clayton!

– Jourdan D, Colorado
Clayton has been an incredible resource for me during one of the hardest times in my life. Relationships are not always what we plan them to be, and when I lost the love of my life, I reached out to Clayton to help understand what happened, and what I could do to regain what I had lost. Clayton not only provided invaluable advice but most importantly, listened to help me understand how I affect the outcomes that I experience, both then and now. The difference between Clayton and other advisors out there is his authenticity, and his amazing coaching ability – he has a diverse and extended background and he pulls from this experience as he works with you. I can’t thank him enough for the help and guidance he has given to me and I can truly say that he has made a huge difference in my life. I am indebted to him and his inspiration lives on in me. Thank you Clayton!

– Suzanne, Virginia

How Do I Get Started?

If you're interested in working 1:1 apply for coaching.

Clayton's personalized and online group experiences are subject to a 2-step application process.

Please note: applications that are successful will be detailed, self-reflective, and thorough.  The impact of coaching starts now by getting deeper with your challenges and motivations to make lasting change in your relationship.

Step 1: Submit a detailed and reflective application for coaching.

Step 2: If selected, you will receive a formal invitation to connect with Clayton for an initial session.

During this session, Clayton will work with you to gain greater clarity about what you would like, what is happening in your relationships and life, and more importantly, the real thing that is holding you back.

Clients step into a more clarity, confidence, and awareness about their relationships and lives as a whole.

By the end of the session, you and Clayton will also be clear on what your next steps are based on your unique and specific needs, and how to continue your client/coach engagement. This is assuming you are both the right fit to continue working with one another AND you are in a space to make a financial investment in your future. To get started on your journey of transformation:

Apply Now

Whatever pain or struggles people have in and with relationships are 100% valid. Often, the advice they get from friends and family is for them to: let it go, move on, there are plenty or fish in the sea, or stop making it such BIG thing. But the truth is relationships ARE a big thing. People who are in pain aren’t crazy. And there is a way to make sense of everything and experience a less painful version of love, connection, and companionship.
– Clayton Olson

If Your Application Is Selected, What Can You Expect From The Initial Session ?

Expect to bring your authenticity and vulnerability to the call. Anything you share will be kept 100% confidential. What is conversed about on the call stays between you and Clayton only.

Clayton has worked with a complete spectrum of people, from business leaders, politicians, professional athletes, to college graduates, new moms, and recent retirees.  All of these people share the vision of what’s possible and are committed to charting the next chapter of their lives.  It is assumed that you are invested in actively making a change and you understand the value of self-development.

You are here because you’re ready to make a change and this is a great opportunity to create the future you deeply desire.

Together, you and Clayton can decide the best way forward.

The call is carried out using teleconferencing facilities such as Skype, Zoom, or similar.

Apply Now