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17 03, 2022

One Counter-Intuitive Sign You Are Growing IMMENSELY

By Clayton Olson|2022-03-31T17:13:13+00:00March 17th, 2022|

Have you ever felt like you were taking risks and growing in life, only to have that small, unwanted voice creep in your head to say that you’re a fraud? Imposter syndrome is not anything most people enjoy feeling. I used to have that inner critic come out with its commentary anytime I’d take big steps in life, personally or professionally (in fact, I still do from time to time!) It used to make me [...]

21 06, 2021

Are You Creating “Infinite Relationships”?

By Clayton Olson|2021-09-09T20:07:42+00:00June 21st, 2021|

Over the last decade of working with clients, helping them create more empowered lives and secure connections, I have seen some themes show up on repeat. Themes that don’t serve their highest good or the relationship they seek to create. At the heart of so many struggles I’ve seen in my clients’ relationships is the idea of anxiety and insecurity, which tend to trip them up and keep them stuck in this negative loop they have a [...]

1 06, 2021

Overcoming the Fear of Failure – Breaking Down to Break Through

By Clayton Olson|2021-09-09T20:08:39+00:00June 1st, 2021|

Have you ever felt like you were rolling along, in the flow, starting to manifest your life’s vision, and then WHAM! All of a sudden life metaphorically T-boned you and all of that came to a screeching halt? Maybe you lost a job you’d been working hard at for years. You might have felt that all your hard work was for nothing, or that you were back to square one. Or maybe you had a [...]

4 02, 2021

How to Change Your Life

By Clayton Olson|2021-09-09T20:34:24+00:00February 4th, 2021|

I'm going share with you a little known but powerful psychological tool that can virtually change your entire life. This tool can change your relationships. It can change the way that you date. It can change the way that you experience happiness, the way that you bounce back from challenges, the way you perform in your career —it can change everything in your life. I bet you’ve heard the phrase, “you create your reality”. Well, [...]

20 11, 2020

The Power of Metaphor in Relationship

By Clayton Olson|2022-03-21T14:01:23+00:00November 20th, 2020|

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the power of language. You might recall some of my earlier posts where I discussed how powerful language is in creating reality. Today I’d like to continue the thread and talk about a little something called metaphor. I’m sure you’ve heard the term before, but here’s a quick definition. According to Wikipedia: “A metaphor is a figure of speech that, for rhetorical effect, directly refers to one thing [...]

9 11, 2020

What is Your Hidden Question?

By Clayton Olson|2021-09-09T20:36:56+00:00November 9th, 2020|

If your current experience of life was the answer to a question, what would that question be? A bit of a strange question to get your mind around, I know. We are constantly asking ourselves questions, consciously and unconsciously, and the nature of these questions impact how we experience life. Tony Robbins said, “The quality of questions you ask yourself determine the quality of your life”. Our questions determine our way of being and how [...]

16 10, 2020

The Hidden Cost Of Achieving Your Goal – Mastering Relationship & Connection

By Clayton Olson|2021-09-09T20:37:37+00:00October 16th, 2020|

Do you ever think about the downside of goal setting? I'm here to share a little secret with you that changed my life. Back when I first started out as a coach on my own after leaving the corporate world ten years ago, I was maniacally driven towards success, on a mission to build my business. I had very specific goals about how much money I wanted to make, how many clients I wanted to [...]