30 03, 2021

The Seven Deadly Relationship Sins

By |2021-03-30T01:11:24+00:00March 30th, 2021|

Not all flaws in a relationship are created equal – some things are easier to surmount than others. In fact, there are a handful of particular flaws - the Seven Deadly Sins of a Relationship - that are especially lethal. Sin One: Jealousy The green-eyed monster is perhaps never more present than in a relationship. When you love someone, you want them to love you back and when you fear they don’t, envy rears its [...]

9 03, 2021

Healing Abandonment Issues & Letting Go of Painful Patterns

By |2021-03-09T01:40:42+00:00March 9th, 2021|

Abandonment issues are an unwelcome third wheel that appear in many relationships. And they’re the kind of third wheel that never spices things up. Rather, the fear of abandonment can doom a union before it really even begins. This is because abandonment issues play a role in the types of men you choose. When you let them dictate the way, you end up choosing the wrong guy, over and over again. So, exactly how do [...]

21 01, 2021

The MYTH of Compromising in Relationship

By |2021-01-21T19:34:09+00:00January 21st, 2021|

Over the last decade I’ve spent working with clients who are suffering from a breakup or divorce, certain patterns seem to show up on repeat. What I’ve seen happen again and again is people succumbing to a common myth. Perhaps you’ve heard of it. It’s the myth of compromise. It’s the idea that every love relationship requires each partner to make compromises for the sake of the relationship. At first glance, this seems like a [...]

4 01, 2021

The 6th Love Language Gary Chapman Forgot!

By |2021-01-06T01:45:57+00:00January 4th, 2021|

No offense to Gary Chapman or the important book he penned, but he might have dropped the ball by stopping at five love languages. In our adult world filled with deadlines, stress and responsibility, it's so important to find the time to play, and when you can bring this into relationship, you become irresistible. In the world of dating, it can be so easy to get wrapped up in this idea of finding the "one"—making [...]

16 11, 2017

How To Stop Being Needy & Clingy In A Relationship

By |2021-02-15T20:45:21+00:00November 16th, 2017|

At one time or another, most of us have found ourselves in a relationship where we can't help but feel clingy and needy, most often because we're insecure about our partner's feelings. But this is never to our advantage. Unfortunately, this usually has the opposite result of what we want, aggravating and pushing our significant other away.  Learning how to stop being needy and clingy is more than just a decision. Clinginess is a reaction [...]

21 02, 2017

How To Check Emotional Baggage At Your New Relationship’s Door

By |2021-03-31T19:58:29+00:00February 21st, 2017|

Time to break unhealthy relationship pattern of bringing the past into your current relationship.   Some people break up for regular reasons – the timing is wrong or there is too much distance between the two lovebirds. Some people break up because they aren’t compatible sexually – she’s whips and chains and he’s lights and socks on.  Others break up because they have different values – one wants kids and the other wants a vasectomy. [...]

15 01, 2017

7 Small (But Hurtful) Ways You ‘Cheat On’ Your Spouse Every Day

By |2021-03-31T18:07:00+00:00January 15th, 2017|

Most of us think that cheating is the ultimate act of relationship betrayal. But, let's get real — people don’t just suddenly decide to trash their marriage vows like that out of nowhere. They don’t go to bed 100 percent faithful and then wake up with adulterous morning plans. Instead of a sudden, shocking downpour ... the truth is, infidelity is actually a storm that brews slowly. Usually, this starts with dozens of mini betrayals. [...]

23 12, 2016

3 Things Happy Couples Do To Keep Love Alive

By |2021-03-30T20:19:57+00:00December 23rd, 2016|

Exactly how to fix relationship? An apple a day keeps the breakup away. Relationships, as anyone who's ever been in one knows, can be trying.  Romcoms and romance novels may make them look easy, but they aren't. Loving, living and lusting after one person for seventy or eighty years are not easy feats. That's why sometimes it's important to learn how to fix relationship before it's in need of fixing. Just like regular medical exams [...]

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