Stop sitting on the sidelines, guys.     From questions to doubts to plain old paranoia, sometimes it’s a wonder that any first date leads to marriage.  For men, this trickiness is often compounded.  That’s because the ball is in your court.   No, it’s not in your court just because you’re a male; it’s here because women are attracted to men of conviction (not to be confused with men who have a conviction).   [...]