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26 02, 2021

Men Fall in Love When You Reveal THIS (What Men Really Want)

By Clayton Olson|2023-08-25T05:47:06+00:00February 26th, 2021|

Yetis. Stonehenge. The Stock Market... Life is full of mysteries! Top ranking with all this wonderment: What men really want. This question has left women scratching their heads and writing furiously in their diaries for centuries. Cracking the male code is not for the faint of heart (or the woman short on ink). Does he want you to be laid back? Does he want you to be bossy? Does he want you to be funny? Does [...]

4 01, 2021

The 6th Love Language Gary Chapman Forgot!

By Clayton Olson|2023-08-25T05:48:37+00:00January 4th, 2021|

No offense to Gary Chapman or the important book he penned, but he might have dropped the ball by stopping at five love languages. In our adult world filled with deadlines, stress and responsibility, it's so important to find the time to play, and when you can bring this into relationship, you become irresistible. In the world of dating, it can be so easy to get wrapped up in this idea of finding the "one"—making sure your [...]

20 11, 2020

The Power of Metaphor in Relationship

By Clayton Olson|2023-08-25T06:03:17+00:00November 20th, 2020|

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the power of language. You might recall some of my earlier posts where I discussed how powerful language is in creating reality. Today I’d like to continue the thread and talk about a little something called metaphor. I’m sure you’ve heard the term before, but here’s a quick definition. According to Wikipedia: “A metaphor is a figure of speech that, for rhetorical effect, directly refers to one thing by mentioning another. [...]

9 01, 2017

5 Horrible Communication Habits That Kill Intimacy

By Clayton Olson|2023-08-23T10:00:40+00:00January 9th, 2017|

Getting better at communication in relationships starts with dropping these five horrible habits. There are many reasons a relationship ends in heartbreak rather than happily ever after. Some of these are out of your control – bad timing, distance, different visions for the future. Then there are reasons that are fully in your control, the strategies you use to communicate and express your emotions. Specifically, there are five behaviors that are toxic to any relationship. Recognizing [...]

3 01, 2017

Have A Threesome With You, Your Man … And Some Dirty Talk

By Clayton Olson|2023-08-23T10:00:45+00:00January 3rd, 2017|

Dirty talk can really spice up your sex life! Learning how to dirty talk is something many women wonder about (men, it appears, are born with the knowledge). Some women wonder out of curiosity, others wonder about it because their sex lives have grown stale. Some wonder about it because they can’t see themselves ever overcoming their shyness enough to let their freak flag fly, others wonder about it cause they’ve wanted to fly their [...]