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5 Post-Breakup Lies That Keep You STUCK With An Eternally Broken Heart

It's time to move on. Here's how. Learning how to move on after a breakup is hard. If getting over someone was as getting under someone else. Instead, it’s time-consuming and enough to make us wonder if asexual creatures actually have the right idea. Still, getting over a breakup isn’t impossible. Millions of people do it every day (and perhaps you’ve done it before as well). Yet realizing a few truths helps make the process not only easier but more productive, [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-07-24T15:28:16+00:00 July 24th, 2017|

5 Totally Confusing Things Guys Do That Mean They Like You

Seems SO weird, right? But wait ... It’s the oldest tale in romance — boy likes girl, boy teases girl on the playground, boy and girl live happily ever after. Yes, it starts early and often continues on from there. The signs he likes you aren’t always obvious — or even particularly conducive to love. Sometimes he sends clear signals — he may text you, call you, or send a dozen roses for no reason at all. Or, shockingly [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-06-25T06:34:23+00:00 May 28th, 2017|

5 Steps You Should ABSOLUTELY Take If You Want To Get Your Ex Back — FOR GOOD

Dreams can come true, you know. Since the beginning of time, games have been played among the genders — women versus men, men versus women. The victor is the one who gets their way. But, as integral as game-playing may appear to be in a relationship, it’s not ideal. In fact, it hurts more relationships than it helps. If you’re wondering how to get your ex back, it’s worth hanging up your uniform and retiring from competition [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-05-21T10:41:49+00:00 May 21st, 2017|

3 Ways To Stop Attracting Losers So You Can FINALLY Meet A Keeper

You deserve SO much more. Almost everyone in the dating world readily admits that they have a type. Men might admit to liking blondes or girls who are tomboys; women might admit to liking men who are built or unforgivingly ambitious. While most people are fine showcasing the exterior of their type to anyone who asks — for instance, "I only date guys who make me laugh" — they don't showcase (or perhaps even notice) the [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-05-15T18:03:32+00:00 May 15th, 2017|

5 Things Every Woman Should Know About Her Man

Men are often forgotten in the midst of being the band on the ring, and not the diamond. I’m sure you’ve wanted to experience your own individuality and appreciation for being you. Your man is no different. In fact, men are often forgotten in the midst of being the band on the ring, and not the diamond. The diamond is you. The woman is the gorgeous sparkle, but your man needs recognition for the way [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-04-20T19:56:48+00:00 April 16th, 2017|

What Men Want More Than ANYTHING (But Are Afraid To Ask For)

Hint: it's not sex! The question “What do women want?” is one people have asked since the beginning of time. In fact, during the Stone Age, both the 'shoulder shrug' and the 'head scratch' head were invented by people pondering this very question. Unfortunately, this common query fails to include the other half of the partnership: the one with a Y chromosome. So, what do men want? And what do men want most in a relationship? Just as [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-04-20T19:56:49+00:00 April 9th, 2017|

THIS Is How To Make Her Your Girlfriend (Finally!)

Stop sitting on the sidelines, guys. From questions to doubts to plain old paranoia, sometimes it’s a wonder that any first date leads to marriage. For men, this trickiness is often compounded. That’s because the ball is in your court. No, it’s not in your court just because you’re a male; it’s here because women are attracted to men of conviction (not to be confused with men who have a conviction). Thus, if you want [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-04-20T19:56:49+00:00 April 2nd, 2017|

If You Can’t Say “YES!” To These 2 Questions, Break Up With Him NOW

Not every relationship was meant to last... Despite what the typical fairytale leads us to believe, not every person in the world belongs together. Plainly put, breakups happen (if they didn’t, we’d all still be dating the first person who gave us "cooties" back in kindergarten). While no one can tell you exactly when to end a relationship with your partner, there are ways to know if it's time to end a relationship that is desperately [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-04-20T19:56:49+00:00 March 30th, 2017|

How To Talk Dirty To Him So He’ll Do ANYTHING You Want

And we mean...anything. There’s a running joke about long-term couples and their lack of sex; it seems every comedian who has ever taken the stage has alluded to it. One of the reasons for its popularity is the truthfulness it evokes. People who have been together for years, when compared to new couples, don’t have sex as often. Of course this makes sense: just as people are likely to play with a new video game [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-04-20T19:56:49+00:00 March 20th, 2017|

Your Only Chance To Get Him Back Is Having NO Contact — Here’s How

Does distance make the heart grow fonder — or is it out of sight and out of mind? Whether we admit it or not, romance comes with a set of unwritten rules — laws we follow in order to win the dating game (and turn it into the mating game). Among the most talked about of these rules is the one involving what to do during the post-breakup phase if you want to know how to get him [...]

By Clayton Olson| 2017-04-20T19:56:49+00:00 March 13th, 2017|