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21 06, 2021

Are You Creating “Infinite Relationships”?

By |2021-06-21T20:32:26+00:00June 21st, 2021|

Over the last decade of working with clients, helping them create more empowered lives and secure connections, I have seen some themes show up on repeat. Themes that don’t serve their highest good or the relationship they seek to create. At the heart of so many struggles I’ve seen in my clients’ relationships is the idea of anxiety and insecurity, which tend to trip them up and keep them stuck in this negative loop they have a [...]

1 06, 2021

Overcoming the Fear of Failure – Breaking Down to Break Through

By |2021-06-21T20:30:03+00:00June 1st, 2021|

Have you ever felt like you were rolling along, in the flow, starting to manifest your life’s vision, and then WHAM! All of a sudden life metaphorically T-boned you and all of that came to a screeching halt?  Maybe you lost a job you’d been working hard at for years. You might have felt that all your hard work was for nothing, or that you were back to square one. Or maybe you had a [...]

7 05, 2021

The Deep Psychology of Attraction

By |2021-05-07T20:42:37+00:00May 7th, 2021|

Have you ever noticed that the people you desire are indifferent to you, while the people you don’t care about are crazy about you? You’re not alone. It’s frustrating to feel like the person you’re crushing on couldn't care less about you, while the other one who you haven’t given the time of day is completely in love with you. This is actually a phenomenon that I’m going to help you get to the root [...]

19 04, 2021

Do THIS To Finally Let Go Of Someone Who Isn’t Good For You

By |2021-04-19T16:17:32+00:00April 19th, 2021|

Have you ever had the experience of just not being able to let go of someone, even though you knew they weren’t good for you? Maybe you just started dating someone, and you’re interested in seeing where it goes. Still, you’re feeling forward movement is blocked somehow—maybe the frequency of their communication is less than you’d like, or you have an emotional connection, but you’re not feeling is reciprocated. Or perhaps you’ve been in a [...]

10 04, 2021

Is He Emotionally Unavailable?

By |2021-04-07T17:08:18+00:00April 10th, 2021|

Have you ever heard of bread-crumbing? In this blog I’m going to define this phenomena, why it might be happening, and give you a strategy to help you get your power back. What is bread-crumbing? I suspect many women have found themselves in this situation at one point or another: you meet someone who seems great, you hit if off, and maybe you go out a few times, but for some reason unbeknownst to you, [...]

2 03, 2021

Are You (Unknowingly) Sabotaging Your Relationships?

By |2021-03-09T01:31:59+00:00March 2nd, 2021|

Has there ever been a time in your relationships where you said or did something that wasn’t in alignment with your integrity? The words you spoke to your partner that didn’t match with what you were really feeling, or the forced smile you gave while deep inside your stomach was in knots… If you have, then you know the pain of feeling like you're living a lie — and you’re tired of it. You might feel [...]

4 02, 2021

How to Change Your Life

By |2021-03-09T01:29:33+00:00February 4th, 2021|

I'm going share with you a little known but powerful psychological tool that can virtually change your entire life.  This tool can change your relationships. It can change the way that you date. It can change the way that you experience happiness, the way that you bounce back from challenges, the way you perform in your career —it can change everything in your life.  I bet you’ve heard the phrase, “you create your reality”. Well, [...]

21 01, 2021

The MYTH of Compromising in Relationship

By |2021-01-21T19:34:09+00:00January 21st, 2021|

Over the last decade I’ve spent working with clients who are suffering from a breakup or divorce, certain patterns seem to show up on repeat. What I’ve seen happen again and again is people succumbing to a common myth. Perhaps you’ve heard of it. It’s the myth of compromise. It’s the idea that every love relationship requires each partner to make compromises for the sake of the relationship. At first glance, this seems like a [...]

8 12, 2020

Why You Need to Break Free From Being a People Pleaser

By |2020-12-08T01:55:58+00:00December 8th, 2020|

Have you ever been afraid to bring everything you are into a relationship just for the fear of having it massively backfire on you? And no, I’m not just talking about the good, positive aspects of who you are… But also what others might deem as negative aspects of your personality - things like your fears, worries, frustrations and sadness. The second you refrain from expressing your true self - including the negative thoughts and [...]

20 11, 2020

The Power of Metaphor in Relationship

By |2020-11-23T22:24:44+00:00November 20th, 2020|

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the power of language. You might recall some of my earlier posts where I discussed how powerful language is in creating reality.  Today I’d like to continue the thread and talk about a little something called metaphor. I’m sure you’ve heard the term before, but here’s a quick definition. According to Wikipedia:  “A metaphor is a figure of speech that, for rhetorical effect, directly refers to one thing [...]