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19 04, 2021

Do THIS To Finally Let Go Of Someone Who Isn’t Good For You

By |2021-04-19T16:17:32+00:00April 19th, 2021|

Have you ever had the experience of just not being able to let go of someone, even though you knew they weren’t good for you? Maybe you just started dating someone, and you’re interested in seeing where it goes. Still, you’re feeling forward movement is blocked somehow—maybe the frequency of their communication is less than you’d like, or you have an emotional connection, but you’re not feeling is reciprocated. Or perhaps you’ve been in a [...]

10 04, 2021

Is He Emotionally Unavailable?

By |2021-04-07T17:08:18+00:00April 10th, 2021|

Have you ever heard of bread-crumbing? In this blog I’m going to define this phenomena, why it might be happening, and give you a strategy to help you get your power back. What is bread-crumbing? I suspect many women have found themselves in this situation at one point or another: you meet someone who seems great, you hit if off, and maybe you go out a few times, but for some reason unbeknownst to you, [...]

2 03, 2021

Are You (Unknowingly) Sabotaging Your Relationships?

By |2021-03-09T01:31:59+00:00March 2nd, 2021|

Has there ever been a time in your relationships where you said or did something that wasn’t in alignment with your integrity? The words you spoke to your partner that didn’t match with what you were really feeling, or the forced smile you gave while deep inside your stomach was in knots… If you have, then you know the pain of feeling like you're living a lie — and you’re tired of it. You might feel [...]

4 02, 2021

How to Change Your Life

By |2021-03-09T01:29:33+00:00February 4th, 2021|

I'm going share with you a little known but powerful psychological tool that can virtually change your entire life.  This tool can change your relationships. It can change the way that you date. It can change the way that you experience happiness, the way that you bounce back from challenges, the way you perform in your career —it can change everything in your life.  I bet you’ve heard the phrase, “you create your reality”. Well, [...]

21 01, 2021

The MYTH of Compromising in Relationship

By |2021-01-21T19:34:09+00:00January 21st, 2021|

Over the last decade I’ve spent working with clients who are suffering from a breakup or divorce, certain patterns seem to show up on repeat. What I’ve seen happen again and again is people succumbing to a common myth. Perhaps you’ve heard of it. It’s the myth of compromise. It’s the idea that every love relationship requires each partner to make compromises for the sake of the relationship. At first glance, this seems like a [...]

8 12, 2020

Why You Need to Break Free From Being a People Pleaser

By |2020-12-08T01:55:58+00:00December 8th, 2020|

Have you ever been afraid to bring everything you are into a relationship just for the fear of having it massively backfire on you? And no, I’m not just talking about the good, positive aspects of who you are… But also what others might deem as negative aspects of your personality - things like your fears, worries, frustrations and sadness. The second you refrain from expressing your true self - including the negative thoughts and [...]

20 11, 2020

The Power of Metaphor in Relationship

By |2020-11-23T22:24:44+00:00November 20th, 2020|

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the power of language. You might recall some of my earlier posts where I discussed how powerful language is in creating reality.  Today I’d like to continue the thread and talk about a little something called metaphor. I’m sure you’ve heard the term before, but here’s a quick definition. According to Wikipedia:  “A metaphor is a figure of speech that, for rhetorical effect, directly refers to one thing [...]

9 11, 2020

What is Your Hidden Question?

By |2020-11-09T22:01:45+00:00November 9th, 2020|

If your current experience of life was the answer to a question, what would that question be? A bit of a strange question to get your mind around, I know. We are constantly asking ourselves questions, consciously and unconsciously, and the nature of these questions impact how we experience life.  Tony Robbins said, “The quality of questions you ask yourself determine the quality of your life”. Our questions determine our way of being and how [...]

2 11, 2020

Your Words Create Your Reality – Part 2

By |2020-11-02T00:51:56+00:00November 2nd, 2020|

In my last blog post, “Your Words Create Your Reality - Part 1”,  I spoke about a client who said, “I’m just anxious in relationships”. Through some simple inquiry and deconstruction of that statement, I illustrated how by shifting the language we use, we can create a new way of experiencing ourselves in relationship and release ourselves from our own self-created limitations. Today I’m going to introduce another way we can gain mastery over an [...]

23 10, 2020

Your Words Create Your Reality – Part 1

By |2020-11-02T00:40:47+00:00October 23rd, 2020|

Recently, I was working with a client who was experiencing some anxiety in a new relationship and they said,  “I’m just an anxious person in a relationship.”  That statement almost slipped by me.  I mean, it very well could be true from their perspective, couldn’t it? However, as a coach, part of my role working with clients is to pay close attention to the language they use to create their experience.   Because, oftentimes, how you [...]

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