What if I told you changing your life was as simple as changing your mind?
Over nearly a decade of coaching, I have gathered some key “inner stances” that I have seen completely revolutionize my clients’ lives, as well as my own.
Thoughts that you have each day hold more power than you know, and by adopting these perspectives as a new way of being, your life transforms in miraculous ways.
Here are a few that you'll learn about…
1. Life happens for me, not to me. This is the shift from victim consciousness to one of co-creation with life. When you look at problems not as something that are designed to hold you back, but instead as lessons for growth, it completely shifts the way you can engage with life, and you realize even the hard stuff offers more than a silver lining.
2. The right people want the real me and can handle my emotions and self-self-expression. I’ve seen throughout the years is my clients feel like they are “too much” for others to deal with. You may feel like the people you want in your life won't like the real you. However, the truth is, the more you come into alignment with your true essence, the more the right people begin to show up in your life.
3. Others are on their own journey and it means nothing about my value. People might walk away from you, they might be judgmental or abusive, but it means nothing about you. It’s easy to think that someone might be treating you a certain way because of who you are, but the truth is, someone’s character is not about you or your value.
We don't need to fix or change them. Allow them to be on their own journey, let go of what’s not in your control and stop trying to heal them. Find freedom in letting go of relationships that aren't working.
At the heart of these ideas is a through-line.
An invitation to help you be aware of how you are always creating your life, experiences, and relationships.
So that you can begin to deliberately & from your inner authority, create something that is in more alignment with the person you want to become.
Take your time contemplating these concepts, and if you want a little more detail on each one, check out the video here: 7 CORE Beliefs That Make You Magnetic
How does this land with you? I'd love to hear from you. Send me an email at [email protected] and let me know. And if you feel like you’d need a professional nudge to help you move along in the process, fill out this application to see if we might be a good fit for some 1:1 coaching.
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