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EVERYTHING IS RELATIONSHIP.

I work with founders, executives, and high-performers whose outer success hasn’t translated to inner peace – especially in their closest relationships.

For 14 years, I’ve helped over 1,000 individuals do the deep work: rewiring the core beliefs, unconscious patterns, and identity-level stories that keep smart, successful people stuck in the same cycles.

My clients come to me when their relationship is in crisis. On the edge of ending. Or already over, and they refuse to repeat the same mistakes again. The anxiety won’t stop. The doubt is constant. They’re performing their life instead of living it.

They’ve achieved more than most people dream of. But inside, they’re still running on outdated wiring. Patterns inherited from childhood. Stories about who they are in relationships that no longer fit who they’ve become.

Through our work together, we go to the root. We find what’s actually driving the pattern. And we rewire it. So they can show up in their relationships and their life from a place of clarity, groundedness, and genuine self-worth.

The result: they stop reacting and start creating. They become unshakeable in their relationships. And that same transformation ripples into how they lead, communicate, and show up everywhere else in their life.

I work with a small number of clients each year. If this resonates, apply for a conversation.

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Before coaching, I was trapped in self-doubt and anxiety that was destroying my marriage-

my wife felt burdened by my constant need for validation. This coaching experience completely transformed how I show up as a husband and father. Now my wife and I have incredible intimacy and communication. She tells me she’s ‘amazingly lucky to be with me’ and wishes I could see myself the way she sees me. I’ve shifted from victim to Creator, learning to be the mountain in her storm instead of crumbling under pressure. This journey created a genuine relationship renaissance with profound connection and intimacy I didn’t think was possible.

-Rob Towers

Having Clayton as a coach was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

Through our work, I have built a more powerful version of myself and now have valuable tools for creating an abundant life and approaching my business with clarity and better decision-making. Clayton has played an instrumental role in helping create my personal operating system around dealing with day-to-day operations, business partnerships, and personal relationships. I now have clarity in how I see myself and am able to take effective actions aligned with my vision and goals in my business. This has been an incredible experience and I recommend it to anyone whether you’re running a business or going through a significant life event and need a professional in your corner.


– Cody L, Co-Founder of Twice

I feel like a different person. My energy has completely shifted and people notice it everywhere I go.

Even my daughter says I’m like a different person as a parent. I’m responding instead of reacting now. I’ve learned to feel my emotions without immediately acting on them. I’m not trying to be chosen or convince anyone to like me anymore. I’m just being myself and really starting to love every part of me. I couldn’t have done this without you because my coach has really changed the way I think about myself.


– Christine Cabras

My work with Clayton was transformative.

In just 6 short months I evolved from a single woman who withheld my truth from men and was too accommodating, to a partnered woman who is able to emote and share my heart with my man. I can genuinely say that Clayton is a master of his craft.


– Allie Andrews, Sex & Intimacy Coach. Portland ME

I started working with Clayton 12 months ago when my 20+ year career felt like it had completely stalled out.

I was waking up with palpable panic each morning, and feeling powerless in my situation. After our first session, I was able to easily understand a much more objective reality, and quickly moved away from debilitating panic and toward solutions-oriented thinking. Rather than learning how to bury emotions and use magical thinking to minimize conflicts, Clayton empowered me to use my particular gifts and insights to understand my situation through the lens of understanding, empathy, and honesty.


– Dan Cox, Strategic Partnerships Leader at T-Mobile

I am absolutely living my dream life and my work with Clayton is a huge part of that.

Clayton is simply the best. He is real. He is focused. He is extremely insightful. And best of all, he is committed to helping his clients become more self-aware, understanding, and accepting of the challenges they are facing, and then he guides them with care to their own better version. After our time together, I launched my own full-time coaching business. I give him my sincerest gratitude. For me, this has been one of the most valuable experiences I have ever been a part of and I am so grateful that I invested in myself and partnered with Clayton.


– Lauren Weibert, Mindset Coach

Investing in coaching with Clayton is by far the best decision I have ever made.

I owe my life to him. He has taught me so much in the past year. He helped me finally break toxic relationship patterns and helped me find me again after a devastating breakup. I’ve been able get out of my head and into my body so that I can trust my inner guidance. I am so much kinder to myself. When I look in the mirror now, I love who’s looking back at me. My form is even different than a year ago. I glow, I am lean, and now eat healthy by choice. My face has even become more youthful and alive, my eyes are bright and soft, my posture is straight and confident. I will be eternally grateful and his biggest fan.


– Kari K, San Fran CA

I show up for our conversations,
we talk and somehow magic happens in my life. I have been working with him for years now and I am still not even sure how he does it. It is a continually amazing process. He is incredibly present, very insightful and one of the few people in my life that I can truly count on to call me on my bullshit.


– Ben Easter, Founder of Lucid Shift Coaching

I am so grateful for all our time in our coaching relationship.

I have learned SO much and have grown in ways I never thought possible. I am now in a committed relationship with a great guy. I am making $60k more than I was when we started coaching creating a new promotion and a new job. I will be referring you to everyone in my life because this has been truly life-changing. Thank you, thank you!


– Vanessa Coaloa

I reached out to Clayton, wanting to save a relationship. However, while working with him, I have learned more about myself than I could have ever imagined.

One of the most helpful aspects of his coaching have been helping me to find the confidence in myself to recognize and be the man that I am. I never imagined reaching this level of peace and (I chuckle as I write these next words) personal enlightenment.

I can honestly say that working with Clayton has been one of the most worthwhile investments because the return on personal growth has been beyond what I could have achieved on my own.

If you’re considering working with a coach willing to do the work, then working with Clayton will be life-changing.


– Ryan Uhrey, Physicians Assistant

When I first talked to Clayton I was in a place of fear after my relationship ended.

Clayton’s perceptive and skillful questions helped pull me out of this frame of mind and empowered me to be the best that I could be. Clayton has support in helping me see the endless possibilities within have empowered me to take great leaps in my life, starting with launching my own business and following my dreams. I am still growing daily and my confidence has grown tremendously. Thank you for being such an inspiration.


– Elena Bleaken, Color Therapy & Style Image Coach, UK

Saved my relationship – more than once.

He was able to give me a lot of clarity and acceptance. Clayton has a special gift for understanding situations with what little information you tell him. It’s more than just his knowledge and training… there’s definitely something special about him.
If there is an internal or external conflict in your relationship, Clayton will be able to help you in ways you couldn’t on your own.

If you need a coach, he is exceptional.


– George Rahal, World-Class Copywriter & Business Strategist

Through my conversations with Clayton, I became unflappable.
You have changed my world so much that I felt it necessary to share with others that you can truly help them as well. Basically my story is a simple one, I came to Clayton having lost the love of my life and was completely crushed. I had lost my confidence and forgotten who I was in my relationship.
Clayton opened my eyes to a completely different way of looking at my situation. I stopped caring about the outcome, and finally started to have fun again. She saw this change and remembered why she fell in love with me.

Although I have the women of my dreams back in my arms again, I won’t forget what I have learned and continue to learn from Clayton. He truly is a great coach that constantly challenges me and my life dreams. But that’s not why I connect so well with him. I connect well with Clayton because he truly cares! That isn’t easily found in this world.

– Patrick

Clayton is an amazing person with incredible insight to offer.
He helped me through a very difficult time in my life, a devastating breakup with a man whom I contemplated having a family with. Clayton made me realize so many things about myself, such as the need to set boundaries and to honor myself and trust my gut instinct in certain situations. In the 3 months that we worked together, Clayton made a major impact in my life, and has helped to shape me into a stronger and more confident woman.


– Angelina Desanctis, CEO at Vet At Home

Clayton is a God send.
He is a wizard and a genius when it comes to coaching and relationships. Thank you so much! When I met Clayton and started working with him I felt he was a gift from God… I still believe that. I was at my wits end when we met. I felt destroyed, depleted, lost… And Clayton slowly helped build me back up… helping me achieve what my mind told me was impossible but my heart yearned for: reconnecting with the woman who dumped me just a few months ago.


– BR, Ottawa, Canada

Clayton is excellent,
in getting me to ask myself the “hard questions” and really look at what happened in my relationship to make it turn out that way it did, and to fix those issues so they never happen again.
– Matt, Ohio
Where do I even begin? YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE!
I went with my gut reaction after seeing you on YouTube—I instantly knew you were someone I could trust and open up to. This was huge for me since I’ve never shared my deepest feelings and thoughts with anyone, EVER! It paid off beyond my expectations. The coaching has been tremendous, and I genuinely love every session. You communicate with true sincerity and wisdom—you are absolutely the real deal. The most impactful areas of our work have been understanding and healing my childhood memories and breaking free from my OCD patterns. These breakthroughs alone have completely freed me. I can’t thank you enough for the transformation you’ve guided me through.
– Lora Neild
Clayton work is based on core values,
from the heart. I feel a tremendous freedom to express myself and Clayton brings enormous warmth and receptivity to the coaching relationship.

– Olga S, UK

Clayton helped me find grounded connection,
Before coaching, I struggled to trust myself in relationships and often felt disconnected and anxious. Clayton gave me tools to anchor myself, ask better questions, and show up authentically. I now feel calmer, more grounded, and able to create the meaningful connections I always wanted. It’s been personal growth on steroids.

– Melissa Arnold

Clayton helped me shift my mentality
and improve my communication skills in all my relationships. He especially helped with my ex girlfriend, who came back to me after many of the changes implemented through Clayton insight.


– Nate, NYC

Clayton has helped unveil my confidence,
as a man and the best in my ability to communicate and understand clearly; what is surfaced is a more fulfilling life.

– Clayton F, California

Clayton has helped me break old cycles
Some of us are fortunate- we are challenged in ways that force us to grow. During these periods, the right support can accelerate our healing.

Clayton was an incredible guide for me during a difficult period. He challenged me to uncover new perspectives, reframe situations, refocus and at times, to simply be.

The depth of our journey, his calm demeanor, the strength that he embodies, the wisdom he helped me invoke from within. A true healer. Thank you Clayton.

– Jonathan Cox, Founder of Vagabond Vox

The difference between Clayton and other advisors
out there is his authenticity, and his amazing coaching ability – he has a diverse and extended background and he pulls from this experience as he works with you.


– Suzanne H, Chief Information Officer

I have NEVER met anyone with an understanding on relationships like Clayton.

His insights and authentic grasp of my situation was priceless!

Clayton was able to help me see things I would have never otherwise seen and help me day by day take the steps necessary to win my girlfriend back, AND become the man I have always wanted to be!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart, you are truly one of a kind.


– Greg, Co-Founder Of Two Guys Thinking, Atlanta GA

– M Shomaker. MD, Colorado

Words cannot describe how thankful I am for having worked with Clayton.

His knowledge and expertise on the subjects of relationships and personal-growth are second to none.

His ability to process and understand relationship dynamics and behavior was what I anticipated, the best in the business. What I did not anticipate was his world-class ability as a personal-growth coach that inspired me to be honest with myself and congruently align my beliefs and actions. What began as a journey to fix a relationship turned out to be a life-changing experience in self-development and personal-growth that I would not trade for anything.

– Mark Fenner, Olympian

During these periods, the right support can accelerate our healing.

Clayton was an incredible guide for me during a difficult period. He challenged me to uncover new perspectives, reframe situations, refocus and at times, to simply be.

The depth of our journey, his calm demeanor, the strength that he embodies, the wisdom he helped me invoke from within. A true healer. Thank you Clayton.

– Chhaya Ramlakhan

Thank you so much for your help.

I followed your advice and took a risk.

And bang! My former boyfriend took a risk as well to see me again, a year
since we broke up. He is now my boyfriend and we are moving towards a
deeper level of intimacy and trust.

Clayton Olson is an NLP magician.
Each meeting with him transformed me little by little, gently and deeply providing lasting results from real change.
Not only is he an experienced coach, he is endowed with an unusual maturity, sensitivity and intelligence.
I will not hesitate to turn to him again.
Should you feel the need to invest in yourself, go for Clayton! Your heart and soul will thank you immensely.

– M.J