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Our relationships often reflect the deepest parts of ourselves

It takes courage to love someone profoundly and deeply because true love is only possible through self-love

Clayton Olson is an International Relationship Coach, Author, and Facilitator. He delivers private virtual coaching sessions and leads online group workshops internationally (USA, UK, Asia, Australia) for both women and men.

To date, Clayton has almost 20 years of experience working to optimize human behavior and social dynamics. He holds a Bachelor’s degree in Communications, Masters Certification in Transformational NLP (Marin-style), and is Coaching Training Alliance (CTA) accredited.

People seek Clayton when they want to transform their romantic relationships in life, working with all stages of their relationships including: getting started, mending, strengthening, or moving on. More importantly, they feel at peace, clear, and happy with the choices they make for their lives going forward.

Rather than teaching quick-fix strategies, Clayton’s coaching style works with the deeper drivers behind people’s most painful experiences in relationships, and adjusts those experiences so clients can secure a life they endear, with a love that endures.

The benefits they gain from transforming their relationships, also extends to all other areas of the lives including; career, purpose, spirituality, business, and money.

  • Deeper connection.

  • Closure.

  • Pain-free love.

  • Lasting happiness.

Work With Clayton

What can you expect when working with me?

Check out what people have to say after investing in coaching with me.

Investing in coaching with Clayton is by far the best decision I've ever made.
I owe my life to him. He has taught me so much in the past year. He helped me finally break toxic relationship patterns and helped me find me again after a devastating breakup. I’ve been able get out of my head and into my body so that I can trust my inner guidance. I'm so much kinder to myself. When I look in the mirror now, I love who’s looking back at me. My form is even different than a year ago. I glow, I'm lean, and now eat healthy by choice. My face has even become more youthful and alive, my eyes are bright and soft, my posture is straight and confident. I will be eternally grateful and his biggest fan.

- Kari K, San Fran CA
He is truly magical.
I’ve been working with him for years now and I am still not even sure how he does it. I show up for our conversations, we talk and somehow magic happens in my life. It is a continually amazing process. He is incredibly present, very insightful and one of the few people in my life that I can truly count on to call me on my bullshit.

– Ben E. Portland, OR

I can genuinely say that Clayton is a master of his craft.
My work with Clayton was transformative. In just 6 short months I evolved from a single woman who withheld my truth from men and was accommodating, to a partnered woman who is able to emote and share my heart with my man.

- Allison, Portland ME
When I first talked to Clayton I was in a place of fear after my relationship ended.
Clayton’s perceptive and skillful questions helped pull me out of this frame of mind and empowered me to be the best that I could be. Clayton's support in helping me see the endless possibilities within have empowered me to take great leaps in my life, starting with launching my own business and following my dreams. I am still growing daily and my confidence has grown tremendously. Thank you for being such an inspiration.

- Elena, UK

Saved my relationship – more than once.

He was able to give me a lot of clarity and acceptance. Clayton has a special gift for understanding situations with what little information you tell him. It's more than just his knowledge and training… there's definitely something special about him.
If there's an internal or external conflict in your relationship, Clayton will be able to help you in ways you couldn't on your own.

If you need a relationship coach, he is exceptional.

– George R.
Clayton is simply the best. He's real. He's focused.
He's extremely insightful. And best of all, he's committed to helping his clients become more self-aware, understanding, and accepting of the challenges they're facing, and then he guides them with care to their own better version.
After our time together, I launched my own full-time coaching business. I am absolutely living my dream life and my work with Clayton are a huge part of that. I give him my sincerest gratitude.

For me, this has been one of the most valuable experiences I've ever been a part of and I am so grateful that I invested in myself and partnered with Clayton.

- Lauren W.
Through my conversations with Clayton, I became unflappable.
You have changed my world so much that I felt it necessary to share with others that you can truly help them as well. Basically my story is a simple one, I came to Clayton having lost the love of my life and was completely crushed. I had lost my confidence and forgotten who I was in my relationship.
Clayton opened my eyes to a completely different way of looking at my situation. I stopped caring about the outcome, and finally started to have fun again. She saw this change and remembered why she fell in love with me.

Although I have the women of my dreams back in my arms again, I won’t forget what I have learned and continue to learn from Clayton. He truly is a great coach that constantly challenges me and my life dreams. But that’s not why I connect so well with him. I connect well with Clayton because he truly cares! That isn’t easily found in this world.

- Patrick
Clayton is an amazing person with incredible insight to offer.
He helped me through a very difficult time in my life, a devastating breakup with a man whom I contemplated having a family with. Clayton made me realize so many things about myself, such as the need to set boundaries and to honor myself and trust my gut instinct in certain situations. In the 3 months that we worked together, Clayton made a major impact in my life, and has helped to shape me into a stronger and more confident woman.

– Angelina

Clayton is a God send.
He is a wizard and a genius when it comes to coaching and relationships. Thank you so much! When I met Clayton and started working with him I felt he was a gift from God… I still believe that. I was at my wits end when we met. I felt destroyed, depleted, lost… And Clayton slowly helped build me back up… helping me achieve what my mind told me was impossible but my heart yearned for: reconnecting with the woman who dumped me just a few months ago.

– BR, Ottawa, Canada

Clayton is excellent,
in getting me to ask myself the “hard questions” and really look at what happened in my relationship to make it turn out that way it did, and to fix those issues so they never happen again.
– Matt, Ohio
Clayton’s work is based on core values,
from the heart. I feel a tremendous freedom to express myself and Clayton brings enormous warmth and receptivity to the coaching relationship.

– Olga S, UK

Clayton helped me shift my mentality
and improve my communication skills in all my relationships. He especially helped with my ex girlfriend, who came back to me after many of the changes implemented through Clayton’s insight.

– Nate, NYC

Clayton has helped unveil my confidence,
as a man and the best in my ability to communicate and understand clearly; what’s surfaced is a more fulfilling life.

– Clayton F, California

The difference between Clayton and other advisors
out there is his authenticity, and his amazing coaching ability – he has a diverse and extended background and he pulls from this experience as he works with you.

– Suzanne, Virginia

I have NEVER met anyone with an understanding on relationships like Clayton.

His insights and authentic grasp of my situation was priceless!

Clayton was able to help me see things I would have never otherwise seen and help me day by day take the steps necessary to win my girlfriend back, AND become the man I've always wanted to be!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart, you are truly one of a kind.

– Greg, Atlanta GA

Clayton has been invaluable to my current life experience.
Quickly I was able to identify when I was not thinking or behaving in line with my core values. My relationships with friends, coworkers and myself have improved immensely. I’ve had several conversations and chat threads with Clayton that led to paradigm shifts in my thinking, which were worth the cost of his coaching alone.

– John S. MD, Colorado

Words cannot describe how thankful I am for having worked with Clayton.

His knowledge and expertise on the subjects of relationships and personal-growth are second to none.

His ability to process and understand relationship dynamics and behavior was what I anticipated, the best in the business. What I did not anticipate was his world-class ability as a personal-growth coach that inspired me to be honest with myself and congruently align my beliefs and actions. What began as a journey to fix a relationship turned out to be a life-changing experience in self-development and personal-growth that I would not trade for anything.

– Mark F.

Thank you so much for your help.

I followed your advice and took a risk.

And bang! My former boyfriend took a risk as well to see me again, a year
since we broke up. He is now my boyfriend and we're moving towards a
deeper level of intimacy and trust.

– Ellen, UK

Clayton Olson is an NLP magician.
Each meeting with him transformed me little by little, gently and deeply providing lasting results from real change.
Not only is he an experienced coach, he is endowed with an unusual maturity, sensitivity and intelligence.
I will not hesitate to turn to him again.
Should you feel the need to invest in yourself, go for Clayton! Your heart and soul will thank you immensely.

– M.J