EVERYTHING IS RELATIONSHIP.
Welcome! I'm Clayton.
I help people come into total alignment so they can create the relationships, businesses and lives they love.
My clients confidently step into a version of themselves they've always known existed but could never quite access.
I work with people who want to significantly up-level their intimate relationships or the work they are doing in the world — and often both.
Here's what I know and what I bring to every coaching session:
You are a powerful creator.
Your past doesn't have to define your future. You can get exactly what you want in this lifetime.
You are whole, complete, innately valuable, and have the answers within you.
But you've likely just forgotten.
What I find when we begin working together is that when it comes to up-leveling their business or love life, while most people know something needs to change and are committed to discovering and making those changes, they secretly doubt they have what it takes.They are not yet in total alignment with themselves.
Through transformative coaching conversations — blending cutting-edge neuro-science, NLP interventions, and radical self-inquiry — I help people shift out of their self-doubts and embody a new set of core beliefs.
This allows them to show up confidently, connected to their value, and knowing they can trust themselves to handle anything that life throws at them — in their work and relationships — feeling at peace, clear, and inspired in the process..
Coming into full alignment with yourself is the key to better relationships and business. The heart of my work is to help you realize and live this.
Having Clayton as a coach was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
Through our work, I have built a more powerful version of myself and now have valuable tools for creating an abundant life and approaching my business with clarity and better decision-making. Clayton has played an instrumental role in helping create my personal operating system around dealing with day-to-day operations, business partnerships, and personal relationships. I now have clarity in how I see myself and am able to take effective actions aligned with my vision and goals in my business. This has been an incredible experience and I recommend it to anyone whether you're running a business or going through a significant life event and need a professional in your corner.
– Cody L, Co-Founder of Twice
My work with Clayton was transformative.
In just 6 short months I evolved from a single woman who withheld my truth from men and was too accommodating, to a partnered woman who is able to emote and share my heart with my man. I can genuinely say that Clayton is a master of his craft.
– Allison, Portland ME
I am absolutely living my dream life and my work with Clayton is a huge part of that.
Clayton is simply the best. He is real. He is focused. He is extremely insightful. And best of all, he is committed to helping his clients become more self-aware, understanding, and accepting of the challenges they are facing, and then he guides them with care to their own better version. After our time together, I launched my own full-time coaching business. I give him my sincerest gratitude. For me, this has been one of the most valuable experiences I have ever been a part of and I am so grateful that I invested in myself and partnered with Clayton.
– Lauren W.
Investing in coaching with Clayton is by far the best decision I have ever made.
I owe my life to him. He has taught me so much in the past year. He helped me finally break toxic relationship patterns and helped me find me again after a devastating breakup. I’ve been able get out of my head and into my body so that I can trust my inner guidance. I am so much kinder to myself. When I look in the mirror now, I love who’s looking back at me. My form is even different than a year ago. I glow, I am lean, and now eat healthy by choice. My face has even become more youthful and alive, my eyes are bright and soft, my posture is straight and confident. I will be eternally grateful and his biggest fan.
– Kari K, San Fran CA
we talk and somehow magic happens in my life. I have been working with him for years now and I am still not even sure how he does it. It is a continually amazing process. He is incredibly present, very insightful and one of the few people in my life that I can truly count on to call me on my bullshit.
– Ben E. Portland, OR
I am so grateful for all our time in our coaching relationship.
I have learned SO much and have grown in ways I never thought possible. I am now in a committed relationship with a great guy. I am making $60k more than I was when we started coaching creating a new promotion and a new job. I will be referring you to everyone in my life because this has been truly life-changing. Thank you, thank you!
– Vanessa Coaloa
I reached out to Clayton, wanting to save a relationship. However, while working with him, I have learned more about myself than I could have ever imagined.
One of the most helpful aspects of his coaching have been helping me to find the confidence in myself to recognize and be the man that I am. I never imagined reaching this level of peace and (I chuckle as I write these next words) personal enlightenment.
I can honestly say that working with Clayton has been one of the most worthwhile investments because the return on personal growth has been beyond what I could have achieved on my own.
If you're considering working with a coach willing to do the work, then working with Clayton will be life-changing.
– Ryan Uhrey
When I first talked to Clayton I was in a place of fear after my relationship ended.
Clayton’s perceptive and skillful questions helped pull me out of this frame of mind and empowered me to be the best that I could be. Clayton has support in helping me see the endless possibilities within have empowered me to take great leaps in my life, starting with launching my own business and following my dreams. I am still growing daily and my confidence has grown tremendously. Thank you for being such an inspiration.
– Elena, UK
Saved my relationship – more than once.
He was able to give me a lot of clarity and acceptance. Clayton has a special gift for understanding situations with what little information you tell him. It's more than just his knowledge and training… there's definitely something special about him.
If there is an internal or external conflict in your relationship, Clayton will be able to help you in ways you couldn't on your own.
If you need a coach, he is exceptional.
– George R.
Through my conversations with Clayton, I became unflappable.
You have changed my world so much that I felt it necessary to share with others that you can truly help them as well. Basically my story is a simple one, I came to Clayton having lost the love of my life and was completely crushed. I had lost my confidence and forgotten who I was in my relationship.
Clayton opened my eyes to a completely different way of looking at my situation. I stopped caring about the outcome, and finally started to have fun again. She saw this change and remembered why she fell in love with me.
Although I have the women of my dreams back in my arms again, I won’t forget what I have learned and continue to learn from Clayton. He truly is a great coach that constantly challenges me and my life dreams. But that’s not why I connect so well with him. I connect well with Clayton because he truly cares! That isn’t easily found in this world.
He helped me through a very difficult time in my life, a devastating breakup with a man whom I contemplated having a family with. Clayton made me realize so many things about myself, such as the need to set boundaries and to honor myself and trust my gut instinct in certain situations. In the 3 months that we worked together, Clayton made a major impact in my life, and has helped to shape me into a stronger and more confident woman.
He is a wizard and a genius when it comes to coaching and relationships. Thank you so much! When I met Clayton and started working with him I felt he was a gift from God… I still believe that. I was at my wits end when we met. I felt destroyed, depleted, lost… And Clayton slowly helped build me back up… helping me achieve what my mind told me was impossible but my heart yearned for: reconnecting with the woman who dumped me just a few months ago.
– BR, Ottawa, Canada
I have NEVER met anyone with an understanding on relationships like Clayton.
His insights and authentic grasp of my situation was priceless!
Clayton was able to help me see things I would have never otherwise seen and help me day by day take the steps necessary to win my girlfriend back, AND become the man I have always wanted to be!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart, you are truly one of a kind.
– Greg, Atlanta GA
Quickly I was able to identify when I was not thinking or behaving in line with my core values. My relationships with friends, coworkers and myself have improved immensely. I have had several conversations and chat threads with Clayton that led to paradigm shifts in my thinking, which were worth the cost of his coaching alone.
– John S. MD, Colorado
Words cannot describe how thankful I am for having worked with Clayton.
His knowledge and expertise on the subjects of relationships and personal-growth are second to none.
His ability to process and understand relationship dynamics and behavior was what I anticipated, the best in the business. What I did not anticipate was his world-class ability as a personal-growth coach that inspired me to be honest with myself and congruently align my beliefs and actions. What began as a journey to fix a relationship turned out to be a life-changing experience in self-development and personal-growth that I would not trade for anything.
– Mark F.
Each meeting with him transformed me little by little, gently and deeply providing lasting results from real change.
Not only is he an experienced coach, he is endowed with an unusual maturity, sensitivity and intelligence.
I will not hesitate to turn to him again.
Should you feel the need to invest in yourself, go for Clayton! Your heart and soul will thank you immensely.